No offense, but your emails are too long and flowery. "Composed." (hence Chopin?!) Either you are a really really really good writer naturally, or you are spending too much time putting the words together, and I think THAT'S really the point she was trying to make with her little two-seater there, sometimes less is more. It's like she doesn't want you planning to spend your time that way, going down in mood? Does that make sense?