Mine means to have every thing line up, what you say, do, think... Parallel. Being congruent, authentic. I covered this topic in therapy and it really helped me. I do think it is one way to achieve happiness. I put it there to remind myself, it's easy sometimes to slide and let things get out of line within yourself, pressure to conform, and I need reminded from time to time.

Venus, just remembered how you feel about happiness, I think you and I have a different take on that word, so I'm going to use the word peacefulness, or harmony. Just inner peace.