Thank you. I did not cheat on her. I lied about putting money in a savings account, and how educated I was. I am very clear on what I want, and that is to work very hard at being a better person and gaining her trust back. I have also lied about trivial things almost as a reflex. Did fold the clothes or water the plants. I am also not sure how to approach obtaining information from her without upsetting her. I definitely appreciate your input, and would love more.