Yep true to everything. I do know a few things about her, but nothing that would give away who she is. Obviously my husband cant share a lot with me which i think makes it harder on him. Probably he will talk more to his best friend about it who is also a T. I just dont know what to say. When my favorite student died i didnt get much support from anyone incl hubby. Ive had so many people i love die, but no one talks about it. So i never know what to say