Thank you so much for all of the suggestions. I have always planned out our days and given her plenty of time to get used to the idea that something was going to happen. That part came naturally to me as I learned early on that she does not transition well.

We've already begun talking about what we will do when she comes. I usually give her a few options and let her decide.

Now if I can just keep her off the computer or tv until after dinner, that would be great!

And no, she's not in therapy or getting any type of treatment at her father's. She's basically Cinderella there. She has two young half sisters, one of whom is severely Autistic, and she basically watches them all day. It's really quite sad.