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Old Mar 17, 2012, 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted by LookingforCalm View Post
Lemme tell you from experience, a recently divorced man is looking to get laid. They are NOT looking for a relationship, and that's a good thing. Who wants to be a rebound?

It's not so much about you having a chemistry with this guy, but you being confident in yourself. I suggest you don't fall into the trap that so many recently divorced people do, and that is have rebound sex in hopes of a relationship. I've been there. It's not about weight, it's about who really gives a damn.

Go out with him and see what happens. But don't expect anything. If he's only been divorced for two weeks, then he's lonely. And that is never a good reason to start something with someone (like you) that wants a real relationship.
I am well aware that his libido is making all of his decisions at the moment and for the next while. He needs to get trough that phase without taking me as a hostage.
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