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Originally Posted by WePow
(((((((((Chopin))))))))))) I wish I could just give you the biggest hug EVER!!!!!
You did so great with letting yourself process through this trigger. I am so sorry you were denied that contact as a child. They say that touch is VITAL to a child. In fact, studis were done which showed children denied touch were harmed greatly. Sending you very huge hugs!!!!!
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Thanks WePow! I guess I was lucky to have my grandparents who gave me affection...because I have read a couple of those studies. In fact, this happened to one of my clients. I started to write her story, but it might be rather triggering (it's
very sad).
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Originally Posted by hankster
The other reason I am not a T; and just wanted to let you know I am here and did hear you; but mother issues - eg wanting one? - are just beyond me. I'm like the boy in A Clockwork Orange - I have had the need and desire and appreciation and ability even to tolerate mothering (or in the movie, Beethoven) simply all trained out of me.  |
My H identifies with you there. Has no desire for it whatsoever!