My previous T got annoyed with me once. He's huge on self-care and I was describing something I'd done that week that I really love doing. I told him that I wished I had time to do that thing every week. He pushed me on making time and I said I really couldn't, since it took about 5 hours to do. So he said to me "so, self-care goes out the window??" in a really irritated tone. I said "I didn't say that!" and he said "No, I did!"

We had a little discussion about how just because I couldn't do that one thing to take care of myself very often didn't mean that I didn't do other things. He calmed down and we went on from there.