Hah, no worries. I also love hearing about others' Ts! I'm so curious.

In answer to the question...
I can only recall once when she outright said something overtly comforting.

"I'm not going to hurt you. I'm not going to leave you."

I had curled up into a rigid, frightened ball. She made me stand up, and took my hands, and tried to make me move. I was shocked at her warmth. I wish she would say things like that more often. Just the way she treats me in general is very comforting, but direct words can mean a lot.