Perhaps the real motivation comes from finding something to live for, or, and most often the case, someone. If one lacks this most significant factor, then one may succumb to the belief that there is no reason to heal. So why try?

Unfortunately, there are many (the exact estimate remains unknown) who would rather be comfortable in misery than take the risk of trying to change. Thankfully, we have sites such as this which encourage healing and give support to those who are in the process.