yes & it was very ugly.

fast forward a million years...different docs..i know dogs. i run a dog sitting business. my regular doc asked me for advice about getting a puppy i helped. she got the puppy & now i am their dog sitter..no big deal...due the issue above..i am able to keep my boundaries..but it drives my t crazy! (when i first started with her she went away & i offered to watch her dog..just because it's what i do...she explained boundaries to me which i knew i was just being polite..i then referred her to a good day care place)

but it's funny i have just helped my t with her dog's cancer issues & now death as well as her son going into the military. last week i walked in & her first words were spot is dying. friday she called out of the blue & said she died. this from a woman who is very by the rules...so it's kind of funny...