Well, if you just look at these two sentences, which are straight from your post, we can think that when she called you, she had the time for the call, but when you called her, she wasn't exactly free to talk, but she wanted to make sure you were relatively okay. I don't know if we can say whether she called "out of the blue" - this would be something to talk to her about, how that makes you feel to receive a call like that, what your expectations are of people - for example, one time, when I was seeing my t/pdoc who works in my apartment complex, I was driving into the complex as he was leaving, we were at the stoplight nearby. We saw each other. I told him, and my current T, that was the moment I realized that I want someone WHO FALLS OUT OF HIS CAR when he sees me like that, he is so startled and thrilled and happy and in love! (That's not asking too much, is it? ) I mean, I really did half-expect him to fall out of his car, and WAS a little disappointed at his total nonreaction in comparison! I wonder what movie planted that picture in my mind?! But even these sorts of half-true fantasies can help our T's help us.