Okay, so I might be blowing this out of proportion just a bit... but here it goes. I need advice or reassurance or SOMETHING.

I met this guy at a fastfood place. He works there, he seemed nice, joking with me and whatnot. I don't find him all that physically attractive or am interested in him and he's a few years older than me (not sure how much, but 5-10?).

One day, he gives me a slip of paper with his emails and phone number and tells me there's a keg party for students at my university and asks me if I want to come.

I don't say anything, and after discussing with a friend, I add him to my MSN. Had my first conversation with him tonight, I'm anxious.

He keeps saying how he's free this weekend and how he would like someone to hang out with (aka me). And keeps telling me to phone him. I can't stand phones, makes me anxious.

I think he was flirting with me... ACK!

And then as I was just about to sign off, he asks me out for coffee. I didn't give him an answer, just signed off.

I know I was being mean with my avoiding his questions and requests and whatnot but I don't know what to do.

No guy has EVER been interested in me. I've got friends who are guys, and I like hanging out with them and all but... this guy actually LIKES me.

HALP?!? I've never been out on a date, and I don't know what to do.

(Yes, this is probably a trivial concern but I don't know what to do. I'd ask for advice from my friends, but they don't understand all I've gone through. And my anxiety about my whole "disability" thing doesn't make it any easier).