I go to T to get knowledge. How to fix things. I guess similarly I come here to gain knowledge too. I feel extremely lucky to be able to read different people's accounts of what's going on. Or when someone posts a personal experience and people weight in with different opinions, it gives me insight should I experience this issue.

I feel like reading everyone's experiences has somewhat evened out the unbalanced relationship with T. Even though I might not have yet experience what people have posted about or it might not be an issue for me, the information is still valueable.

I guess I feel supported when I get useful knowledge. Being a lurker I aslo enjoy when threads get hi jacked or there is bantering going on, as sometime I just need a good distraction from my own crap.