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You have NO reason to feel guilty! You cannot control what your ex does or continues to do. If your ex does not contact your son, it's NOT your fault! Your son will soon find out that his father is a jerk. Yes, it will hurt, let him find this out by himself. My granddaughter is going thru the same thing. Her father is being a total idiot. He isn't paying child support. He doesn't see her AT ALL. He rarely ever calls her --- SHE has to call him, and she's tried of it. She's 16 and she said she's tried of being the one to instigate all contact. She has started seeing a therapist to deal with her mixed emotions about him.
I'm sure your son misses his father, but you can't force your ex to visit him. You don't say how old your son is, but just tell your son that you're waiting for your ex to grow up. LOL I wish you the very best. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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