Thanks for the suggestions. I definitely need to journal about it. I might share that with T. She hasn't said anything to me about it, but I don't want to wear out my email welcome if you know what I mean, and I emailed her quite a bit the last two weeks.
I did go to a gay AA meeting tonight and shared about it which helped quite a bit. I'm still sad, but it helped to get support there from folks who've been in the same situation before. The more resources the better, right? It takes a village to raise an adult.