It angers me to think that someone could have the guts to say that you aren't a mother! You expressed such unselfishness and only thought of your son and the life he would have. Most parents, male or female, would've kept the child and just dealt with it, trying to keep the child and hope for the best. You, on the other hand, thought of the life he would have with you and decided that you couldn't offer him all that he needed. Super kudos to you!