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Originally Posted by PsychGirl123
I have a potential long distance relationship on the horizon.
My bf was accepted into graduate school on the other side of the country. The area is not very good for my field, but he was offered a scholarship for for the first two years. He'll need to be there for 5 years.
I don't want to go there and be miserable, but I don't want to stand in his way of opportunity either. I don't think either of us will be able to afford to travel back and forth, and he will be extremely busy with school. I'm sad  Don't know what to do or if I can take the distance, and I don't think he is willing to stay here for me, not that he should. In my heart I want to ask that he does, but I can't be that selfish.
I don't know how the two of you do it but bravo to you. Stay stong!
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Very long distance relationships are tough to maintain, and they're a lot more challenging than others. Mine has taken me places both emotionally and spiritually that I've never been before - it was humbling to say the least. I use to think I'd been there and done it all when it came to relationships and marriage - so it's definitely been an awakening. And it's also been a time of growth and change for me, as well as discovery...
If you believe in the relationship you have, hang in there!