That's just it, isn't it? Does it ever come to that, when we become our own T? I'm trying so hard to do that right now. Like you,"I have years and boatloads of insight thanks to therapy" ... my own degree in the subject, I figure. Yet I spent bunches of Friday & more time today in his office trying to sort stuff out that it seems to me I have preparation for.

Maybe we know but don't have the confidence. Maybe we know but can't see the answer--because we're too close to the question. Maybe George Carlin wondered the same thing.

It's sure frustrating, though.

Roadie