I have a certain member at my site who is becoming rather...argumentative. I'm not the only one having trouble with her, either. My co-admin is also PMing me constantly about her behavior, posts, etc. I'm trying to do all I can for this girl, but she keeps saying things that aren't quite...agreeable?

She asked if she was being mean because she thinks that it's an ok thing to give good friends the cold shoulder and ignore them and all that just because they don't do what you tell them to. I think if you think like that then you are...I don't know the word for it...it's just not a good thing!

I tried to tell her honestly that it's not right to expect this kind of bossiness to be ok while everyone else does exactly what you say and when you say it. Well, she highly disagreed with me, saying I was mean, wrong, etc. etc.

My response? "All I'm gonna say is that you are gonna have a very unhappy life if you expect this from everyone." I really wanted to tell her off, tell her what to kiss, etc., but I still respect the members of my site enough not to do things like that no matter how angered I am.

Do you think I handled it correctly? Am I wrong because I told her nobody is gonna do what they are told if they don't want to????