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Originally Posted by morsecoded
I'm kind of having the same issues with my partner - except it got to the point where me "just going along with it" wasn't good enough anymore. And then I couldn't do it at all. Now we're at one of those cliffs...aiyee.
I personally find sex pretty tedious and mechanical, even if I love my partner. It's just not a part of true intimacy for me. I'd rather be doing a lot of other things, and yep - I do sort of mentally drift off.
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Yeah... that's what I kinda do too... I think? (I believe we're on the same page).
I dunno, like, I know that having sex is a really important big thing for him. So usually I just nod along to what he wants to do and let him do what he wants to me. That usually satisfies him. I don't think it's fair if I don't let him do that because he's always there trying to cheer me up, motivate me and supports me. The leaaaaast I can do is **** him, so to speak.