Older male T, middle aged f here. Sex talk awkward? Sure. Especially if he tries to guess where I'm going or even try to finish my sentences. What, you want to be taken from behind? Whaaa?? Where did that come from? How did what I was saying lead to that?
We haven't perfected this at all, but I'm alright with that.

Sometimes he will say something to share, make me feel better about my situation. And I keep thinking dear god no, I don't want to know this anecdote because it we be fodder for crazy thoughts when I least want to think of my T. Get out of my head!!