Two T's both male ... one he has mention the word sex once in a way that wasn't connected with me and I've referred to it once in an offhand way. I want to talk further but it's just never happened in a way that would feel comfortable for me. Other T is probably the best person in the world to talk about sex related issues with; he is entirely at ease which helps with my extreme unease. It used to start something like me having a complete breakdown and taking hours to ask one question, then moved to somewhere along the lines of "um, i know you can talk about this stuff but I hate it" and go from there; now it's much easier because I'm used to him; and easier again to initially raise in an email and then move to conversation.