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Mar 20, 2012, 05:16 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I'm sorry you're going thru that. It's awful living in that kind of environment.
I agree with Lightningman ~ Why not go to AlAnon and see what they have to say. That is a group for people who have family/friends who are alcoholics. They teach you how to cope with the drinker. They teach you how to have a life without losing it to the drinker. They teach you how NOT to enable the drinker! That's the most important. Without knowing it, we enable them and it makes things worse.  I've gone to many meetings and it was VERY helpful to me. it made a huge difference.
Give it a try and see what you think. It will probably take several meetings before you can make up your mind, but please try it. I wish you the very best. One thing I do want to mention tho is if his temper is such that you are in DANGER, don't stay!! Get out and go somewhere safe! Your safety is the number one priority! God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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