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Originally Posted by Bitsandpieces
I have no intention of letting anyone know about my self harm ever! Apart from my psychologist. It's just too much, too private, and I have a hard time opening up, because yes, yes I think they wouldn't like me and yes I am terrified that once I let someone close they will leave and I know I cannot bear it. Last time it happened was four years ago and I'm still not over it!
But I realize I have to get out of this mindset, but I think I need clear step by step instructions, because I don't WANT to get out, but I should.
Thank you so much for taking the time to help, you're great  |
Some people can hear about your self-harm and be accepting. There are people who can understand, people who will not judge you for it. As for opening up in general...I don't know what to say. Honestly, you're right that the leaving happens way too frequently, and it's just so destructive for people who can't stand rejection in this first place.
