I would consider reporting her as well. She needs help. I wouldn't waste any energy on inquiring why she's a B***h. Spend it finding a good T. With the new T you can process the previous T "relationship". Hopefully there you will see that this doesn't border on "semi-abusive", it is abusive. Ask your friends for some references. They obviously knew this one wouldn't work, maybe they have an idea on ones that might. Run, don't walk away. Good luck!