T1 never had any problem talking about it all, she was very frank, open, open-minded ....... so that helped me feel a little more comfortable talking about sex stuff. Huh, as long as it wasn't the actual, mixed-up sexual feeling I had for HER, I was OK talking about sex!
T2, the topic came up sometimes, not because I brought anything up on purpose, it just came up, and she too never seemed ill at ease talking about anything I needed/decided to talk about. Sex never was my fave topic but I am much more matter of fact about than I used to be, so I guess my Ts and their open, comfortable attitudes toward the topic helped me learn to be more at ease with sex, sexuality, talking about it, etc. I have even made strides in being able to talk with H about stuff I like, don't like, am curious about!
