yow! she sounds rude, discourteous, insensitive, unprofessional, inconsistent! I'd not go back either ....... not only does she not sound like a good fit for you, I can't see how that sort of behavior is going to be helpful for any client, and she doesn't even sound like a good T, assuming she is like that with others, too.
maybe she isn't always like that, I hope!, but just has some sort of negative counter-transference toward you that is behind her attitude/actions/words. in that case, too, you definitely need a therapist who can deal with her own stuff better and one who can be more helpful/understanding of your needs.