I think you are right Ava,they are beautiful souls,who interpret life more deeply and through pain colored lenses.Some ,being unaware of the dynamics involved,or,even the outline,are stuck in patterns simply due to the fact that they don't know what they need to in order to have the tools to change.I am coined a quiet borderline,and if that in itself is so awful,(cause to me it is painful") then I couldn't bear being a typical type in bpd spectrum.