((((anjelmarie)))))

Wow, that is so strange, but I do believe you. Oh, and sorry about the carpal tunnel, but give it time the surgery should help elimate the pain, that can be annoying.

Can you go out with your bf and talk to him about finding a new place to rent? I think that this is not something you can solve and it is upsetting you too much. Maybe you can start looking for something that you can move to that is affordable?

In the meantime go shopping for a loud fan that can help to drown out the noise upstairs. I do that because my husband snores or I use it to help drown out noises if I want to take a nap and I just turn it away from me and the noise does help.

The other thing you could do is if the TV is in another room and you want to rest undisturbed, go put it on, close your door, put the fan on and rest. The girl upstairs will think you are watching TV. You can even put the fan on when you sleep at night, it may help to drown out the noise in the morning.

If the girls parents will not do anything to control the child then there isn't much you can do about that unless she is being abused.

You can find inexpensive fans at the Job lots that are located in the North East too. Or even Walmart may have them.

I believe you and it IS strange and should not be YOUR problem to solve. As I mentioned if you can find another rent somewhere else, then that would be a good solution too. Your mental health is worth it.

((((Hugs)))))
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