I have a great relationship with my husband... but wasn't always the case. I use to have trouble opening up to him and it would make him feel really sad and useless and stressed and everything... therapy really helped on this, I mean REALLY REALLY helped!

I had no relationship with my t for the first 12 months I guess... I wanted to be independant so I would resist every attempt to get closer. I slowly let him in and I can say I'm attached now and glad I let him get closer because it helped in so many ways

As for friends... hummm... I have close friends I guess but still working to let them in too! The same issue I had with t; don't want to get sad because I get too close or something... but there's hope

I feel great now but haven't always feel this way, trust me. I went through time I was sure I would do better on my own, then when I realised I wasn't, I felt like I could never have real relationship... it's not perfect yet but getting there... slowly!