I had a fantastic T she was brilliant. I could talk to her about anything, we talked about my difficulty with sex in a relationship and how I wish I could be more itamate but when it came to talking about csa I found it so difficult I just couldn't get the words out. I had to write it down in the form of a letter to myself so dhe could read. It was because I felt so ashamed that I couldn't talk about it. Fortunately she understand and helped me to believe that it wasn't my fault and I guess now I could talk about it without difficulty. She was amazing!

So in my case the unwanted sex was harder to describe due to feelings of shame and blaming myself