I would say that for sure unwanted is harder.. I am not sure how to even start that conversation with my T. I suppose if the issue of my intimate relationship with my husband came up, it would be eaiser to say it sucks right now.. b/c really it relates to my anxiety and depression and it can be talked about in that context.

T has no clue about the specific situation of abuse in my life.. As a matter of fact I flat out lied about it on intial appointment if there was any incidents of sexual abuse in my past.. So, for some reason this seems even harder to bring up.