How long do they stay, and do they usually stay with you? I'm currently estranged from my in-laws because they visited so often and stayed so long that I nearly had a nervous breakdown. I liked them before they decided to come to stay so much. I'm a loner and the level of togetherness was more than I could take. They just think I'm being *****y because they're all extroverts and think there's something wrong with me.