{{{{{{{{{{{{{Inkblot,}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} thank you so much. I read your post last night but felt I had to do some thinking about what you said. I'm a little clearer on it now. You're right. I appreciate your thoughts. We can't always be on one end or the other, can we? Sometimes we can give, sometimes we need to receive. You've given understanding and acceptance and I'm certainly going to accept them!

When I was in therapy, the word "dichotomy" came up several times. Now, I don't remember if my T and I were faced with one, or if she said I was one. Maybe both? I'm still feeling like maybe I'm at the point of decision. Is that "on the horns of a dilema"? Oh, man! I'm going to talk circles around myself this morning! LOL I hope you get the picture, 'cause I'm gonna stop right now before I get too dizzy chasing my tail! LOLOL

At any rate, you have a couple of words to chew on for a bit.

<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>