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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
 I agree, especially since to tell her in person means you would be PAYING her for the time it takes you to get it out, plus you'd have to deal with her reaction whatever it may be. Enough.
Email is much cheaper, in terms of $$ and also wear and tear on you.
Hope you look around & find a terrific therapist - you deserve one. Could you let us know?  |
I really agree, and I believe this to be strongly true for me:
My compassion is often misplaced. In other words, I worry and wonder what the sh*%thead who offended me is going through.....RATHER than taking care of myself.
Which is why I stayed with a horrid T for so long, hoping it would "work" and why I challenged myself to go back in and "get heard" or whatever.
I just wasted my time and my money.
You know what they say about teaching a pig to sing. You waste your time; you annoy the pig.
Cut your losses. Move on.
My two cents worth. You'll ultimately KNOW>