I keep on coming back to this, b/c I find your response very comforting. I talked to my husband about it last night, and he thinks that it really should be talked about. I am soooo scared. I feel bad, b/c in my intial "intake" interview I was asked if I had any sexual abuse in my past and I flat out denied it. It was just not something that I felt needed to be discussed and never wanted to. Now, that I see it should be talked about what if T doesn't believe me, what if he doesn't think it is that big of a deal. What if I can't get the right words out.. Ugh. This is just stinking scary.