I am sorry that you are experiencing this Costello. I don't think you should blame yourself, that will not solve anything. Someone told me, "free will isn't free", this is what your son is going to learn with booze. Seems to me that everyone does. Some sooner than others, thats the only difference, I believe.

Maybe put some literature around so he can see it, about alcoholism or addiction or trouble with bein stupid cuz someone is intoxicated.

I hope this helps you a bit, you have been very helpful to me.

I have noticed this, and I want to return the favor.

G'luck brook