((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS ))))))))
I both understand and know where you are coming from with the special needs child.... my only daughter was born with problems that left her handicap and in a wheel-chair the entire 10 years of her precious life.... when she was younger it was difficult to find anyone that could care for her when we needed a break or that felt they could care for her.... this only left my husband and I with out any down time, for she required 100% care at all times.
I am now glad to hear that you and your children are safe from the harmful ways of the man you all once looked up to for love & protection.... may you all seek and receive the support you need, husband included.
LoVe,
Rhapsody -