I cannot agree. Does this kind of anger and aggression show love? Yes, he probably needs to work on these issues ... but will he? and if not ... at who's expense?

I think the anger within him is seen but more than that I feel it is being lived. That is a different matter altogether. And a much more painful one.

I have been in this place. And it hurts more than anything. There was NOTHING that I could do to make *his* feelings easier and mine in the process. I don't know if Time agrees.