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Old May 28, 2006, 03:08 PM
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Sabrina.... I am not saying that he does not need to work on his problems (for he does) - but what I was saying that his out burst does not in any way reflect upon his love for his wife, but rather at his hate for himself.... A husband can get angry at a person on the street, on the rode driving to slow or next to him at the light - (and) if he yells at them or cuts them off it does not mean he does not LOVE his wife - but rather that he has ANGER management problems.... and we all know that anger is really not the problem at hand, but rather an emotion used to cover up the real issue.

I love YOU all and I am not defending anger in any way or form.... but a husband saying or yelling at another person outside of the car does not reflect on his wife, but rather it reflects on own his character (or lack of it). HE needs help too....

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BTW - I respect your right to your opinion, for I have never walked in the actual shoes of a wife who's husband became physical with her.... I lived through a father that was an alcoholic and a mean one at that (I was his main target), but never a husband.


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