I don't know how many flipping times I have been thru this, too. People telling me I am "dwelling on my condition".

I realize that bpd is not all that I am, but I also need to know about it and how to deal with it. I have never dealt with it before. So I will "dwell on it" for a while!

And who gives her the right to tell you what you are doing with your life?!

No one.

I feel that she is on her own trip and it's not about you at all.

But I know it hurts and can be so exasperating when we are treated this way!

Billi