I have this deep fear that I'm going to be alone forever (as in I'll never find someone to love me and marry me). I'd seriously rather die than grow old alone.

I'm in my mid-twenties now and am surrounded by the engagements/weddings/babies of my peers. I had one serious relationship that went up in flames about 2.5 years ago. I think I'm mostly over it by now, but there's still a little hurt there. I know having a relationship won't suddenly make my life all magical and perfect with puppies and rainbows, but it would sure be nice to have someone by my side for life during the ups and downs.

Does anyone have some suggestions on how to deal with this fear of mine?