I have been having two reacuring themes that are bugging me lately. I keep having dreams in which I am argueing with my boyfriend (who I love and feel safe with in real life) as to whether or not what he did to me (not in real life) was an assult. It's totally odd because I don't feel that he would ever hurt me like that but it keeps coming up along with dreams about him having cheated on me and me trying to kill him when I find out. They are so vivid they are quite disturbing.