Thank you so much for telling me how you feel. My daughter is not very good at expressing herself, never has been. I'll ask her about the hugs. When I talked with her the other night I apologized for trying to comb her hair. She told me that it's true, she didn't like it. We tried to think of things we can do while she's here, like going out for sushi (her favorite activity) going to the beach, probably in the evening when there's less people there, hiking is a great idea, and I'll see if she's willing to play games with me.

I really appreciate all the input!