Its only when the forgiveness question comes up do I think about it. I really don't feel there's anyone to forgive. People did what they did and I realise now that I've just come to a place of acceptence over it. I don't wish harm to anyone from my past, I think everyone including myself is "right sized" now. Self forgiveness? That would mean I'd have to be thinking about myself in some over sized propotion. I accept myself and don't see why self forgiveness would even be an issue. Its never come up in my therapy, I've not been directed in that way, but then I'm not part of any christian society that gets off on beating oneself up to then dust oneself down. Its all to me me me focused to be fair. I am who I am until I am no more.