You sound pretty normal to me, Radiant. You're only 22 for crying out loud! I wish I could go back and explore things all over again. It's a marvelous time!

It is time to start getting serious about the future. The future is much easier when you have more of it to work with. It's kind of trite, but, what do you like best? DO THAT!

The best girlfriends are the ones you find when you are not looking. The thrill of intense attraction is just that-THRILLING- but that thrill is not what you build a lasting relationship on. It takes time and commitment from both to grow the kind of love that can last.

I'm so jealous-you're 22, just moved to a new country, you should have a blast! Just remember, don't get in too big of a hurry... the good things will come to you if you let them!