As a gal who has been divorced a while, I can empathize with the loneliness factor. And yes, online dating is a huge joke. I think most men on there prey on women and the fact that we are lonely, and exploit it.

My suggestion is to read the Rules. Some of it may seem archaic, but it is helpful when dealing with dating at all. It's actually saved me from going backwards to relationships that aren't good for me.

Best of all, don't let this get you down. You are free to as you wish. You don't have to answer to anyone. And as cliche as it sounds, the more confident you are, the more likely you will get dates with people. It really does work.

Take care, and good luck.