Originally Posted by obj
...is there ever a situation in which not being in control can serve a purpose for you?

And you said:
My apologies. I forgot to answer your question in the previous post...

I can't think of any, unless I was a masochist. In which case, giving control to another would serve my sexual desires. But I'm not, so that's beside the point...[/quote]

Hey there; here I was curious to see if there was a balance...on one hand, if you feel you have to be in control of everything at all times-well thats one extreme, and then of course the other extreme is having no control all the time. From what you've posted here and there it seems that the idea of being out of control repulses you, as well as being around any one who exhibits lack of control...do you feel this is a theme for you?

Hope all is well with you, my apologies as well for the time it took to get back to you;
take care,
-obj