Since I am taking classes in addiction counseling, I tend to look at the relationship from both sides at times. I usually manage to not do this too much. However, I can't help but do it some. I mean I have pretended to be a counselor as part of my courses. I find that a lot of my classmates in previous Psychology courses in college and my current courses have had hard ships and struggles that make them more sympathetic. However, some of my classmates tell me that I shoudn't think that way if I try to share just a tip of the ice berg negative thinking comment.